You are God's beloved

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God created the world in 6 days and rested on the 7th day. He gave us dominion in everything He has created. You are God's image therefore you are perfectly beautiful in God's eye. You don't have to be a shame of how you looked. You should be proud of it because you are God's masterpiece. You may not be Dakota Johnson but at least you are still created unique in your very own way. I believe that God created me where I can blown you away! Yikes! that is called confidence haha. So after you read this blog, look in the mirror and say that I'm the fairest of them all! 

Every woman has her own ideal man, Yes? There's nothing wrong to dream of a Brad Pitt look alike or as handsome as Mr. Grey but don't forget the reality vs expectation thing. What is your ideal man? or should I say is ideal man still do exist? Man still exist of course but ideal? I don't think so. What I want to tell you is when you start looking or imagine a man who you want to be with for the rest of your life, you will begin to search, meet and date guys you like. After several dating and meet ups you will like him more. You would fall easily because that is our nature (bad nature) haha and this guys they really want you to fall because that is their nature and the worst thing is if they will not catch you. Arrgh! You were not in a relationship though but he makes move like he is your boyfriend really! the 24/7 convo just to show he's in to you. Until one day you will wake up and realized he was not yours and you're not his girl. Maybe some of us experience this heart breaking effect of "PaHopia" feelings so I created this blog to help you girls out there how to move on from this "PaHopia" guys you met or you will meet.

1. There are so many Fish in the ocean

Cliché may it sound but hello that is surely a big thing to consider in moving on from this "PaHopia" guy. Don't cry the whole day because he didn't pursue you. How many billion man out there. Gosh! and I told you that your are perfectly created by God. You just have to accept that you are damn beautiful.

2. Block him!

Yes! forget all the drama he given to you, he doesn't deserve your tears girl! What I would like to tell you is use necessary things that could help you to forget him. If only blocking him to your life will make you easy to move on then go! Everyone deserves to be happy. If not, then you can just unfollow him.

3. Learn from your mistake

There's more to life than love. After this "heart break" you already know how to handle a "PaHopia" guy, you should! because one mistake is enough. In my next blog I will share with you how to know if he is "PaHopia" based on my experience lol.

4. Enjoy your resting period

Don't make "landi" agad! Give time to heal and give time to forgive because if you will entertain again there are lots of possibility that it will not work so it is not good to date after what happened. One year is enough.

5. In blossom day

Tadaaa!! You are blooming again. Congrats! After all the crying moments, you are now in full bloom. Thus, you are ready to fall again but not to "PaHopia" anymore because you learned from it and never go back to the thinking that you are just a SECOND OPTION because there is one heart that will never tell, you are just an option. You are meant to be mine!

Ladies, maybe we can't blame this "PaHopia" guys but next time be careful when you meet this guys. Be on guard and PRAY persistently if this guy is from God or not because the enemy knows how to make you "kilig" as well.

I hope you learned a lot today. If you have questions or personal experiences you want me to share in this site don't be shy to send me in my email at ursula_chrizel@yahoo.com.

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Hey! what's up?

Hello Guys!! It's me again! I miss telling you stories of my life which I hope you could relate in. It's been a year when I last deleted my old blog account and so I'm really back to the game! Today is Happy Easter day! I went to church last Friday and meditate to the seven last words, by the way my blog today is not all about Easter haha.

Have you ever been terminated to your job? or praying for something but you did not receive a YES to God? It is really hard right? It's like when you enter a coin into a vending machine and it didn't accept it and you are on a rush? If you are in this situation you might relate to the story I will tell you.

People say "when God closes the door then open the window." Many opportunities now a days are gone bad especially when you didn't expect to lose a job? Competition may arise everywhere but they said that God can open the window ( I hope there is) but I believe that God can turn every test into testimony. If you lost a job or when you prayed a lot but God still didn't response to your prayer always remember that there is a ROOF that Jesus can open! What I really mean is there is a bigger opportunity or plan that God is preparing for you to have. So I will share the things you should do while waiting for God to answer your call because God hears every whisper and every message from your heart because our heart is connected to Him.

Things you should do:

1. Inhale and Exhale

Yes!! I'm not kidding. Before you react to all the bad news or if thing went wrong. Inhale the positivity and Exhale the negativity. It may not help that much but it will reduce your anxiety attack once you practice it.

2. "Everything happens for a reason"

Oops!! Other people says that how is it possible when something gone bad if you lose someone or anything in your hand, it happens for a reason? What the f** reason is it? and you hurt for a reason? Yes, and that reason is for your own good because God says "All things will work together for the good of those who love God and called according to His purpose." You may not know it yet but I promise you there will come a time you will understand why this things are happening and always remember that God owns our life. We live in this temporary world that in a one blink of an eye everyone of us will disappear. So on my next blog I will tell you how to cope up with depression.

3. Pray the Prayer of Faith

Always remember that good things and bad things only God knows. Once you pray the prayer of faith you will learn how to surrender things to God. Yes! I feel you. It is really hard to surrender but when you believe that God can bring you out of the pit He will surely do. Simple us when you practice the law of attraction and attract all the positivity you will definitely receive the positive vibes that  the universe could give. Always stay positive and when you ask in prayer with faith believe that you would receive it in God's perfect timing.

4. Read the bible

For those who are not in to bible reading I encourage you to download application about bible verses there so many bible app in play store where you can enjoy browsing like using facebook and the rest of the social media because God's promises are written in the bible.

5. Plan your action

You can't have it done if you will not move. So I tell you to get up on your bed and fix everything that is lost in you. Nobody can help you except you so better to fight a good fight than losing it for lifetime.

I'm so glad that I shared to you the things I do whenever I'm facing the giants in my life. We have a big GOD so why do we have to be afraid to move forward if we receive challenges in our life. I'm a strong person and I know this is how God created me. Awaken the warrior in you!

Praying for you guys!

If you have comments or suggestions you may post it below and I will surely reply on you!

God loves you!