You are God's beloved

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God created the world in 6 days and rested on the 7th day. He gave us dominion in everything He has created. You are God's image therefore you are perfectly beautiful in God's eye. You don't have to be a shame of how you looked. You should be proud of it because you are God's masterpiece. You may not be Dakota Johnson but at least you are still created unique in your very own way. I believe that God created me where I can blown you away! Yikes! that is called confidence haha. So after you read this blog, look in the mirror and say that I'm the fairest of them all! 

Every woman has her own ideal man, Yes? There's nothing wrong to dream of a Brad Pitt look alike or as handsome as Mr. Grey but don't forget the reality vs expectation thing. What is your ideal man? or should I say is ideal man still do exist? Man still exist of course but ideal? I don't think so. What I want to tell you is when you start looking or imagine a man who you want to be with for the rest of your life, you will begin to search, meet and date guys you like. After several dating and meet ups you will like him more. You would fall easily because that is our nature (bad nature) haha and this guys they really want you to fall because that is their nature and the worst thing is if they will not catch you. Arrgh! You were not in a relationship though but he makes move like he is your boyfriend really! the 24/7 convo just to show he's in to you. Until one day you will wake up and realized he was not yours and you're not his girl. Maybe some of us experience this heart breaking effect of "PaHopia" feelings so I created this blog to help you girls out there how to move on from this "PaHopia" guys you met or you will meet.

1. There are so many Fish in the ocean

Cliché may it sound but hello that is surely a big thing to consider in moving on from this "PaHopia" guy. Don't cry the whole day because he didn't pursue you. How many billion man out there. Gosh! and I told you that your are perfectly created by God. You just have to accept that you are damn beautiful.

2. Block him!

Yes! forget all the drama he given to you, he doesn't deserve your tears girl! What I would like to tell you is use necessary things that could help you to forget him. If only blocking him to your life will make you easy to move on then go! Everyone deserves to be happy. If not, then you can just unfollow him.

3. Learn from your mistake

There's more to life than love. After this "heart break" you already know how to handle a "PaHopia" guy, you should! because one mistake is enough. In my next blog I will share with you how to know if he is "PaHopia" based on my experience lol.

4. Enjoy your resting period

Don't make "landi" agad! Give time to heal and give time to forgive because if you will entertain again there are lots of possibility that it will not work so it is not good to date after what happened. One year is enough.

5. In blossom day

Tadaaa!! You are blooming again. Congrats! After all the crying moments, you are now in full bloom. Thus, you are ready to fall again but not to "PaHopia" anymore because you learned from it and never go back to the thinking that you are just a SECOND OPTION because there is one heart that will never tell, you are just an option. You are meant to be mine!

Ladies, maybe we can't blame this "PaHopia" guys but next time be careful when you meet this guys. Be on guard and PRAY persistently if this guy is from God or not because the enemy knows how to make you "kilig" as well.

I hope you learned a lot today. If you have questions or personal experiences you want me to share in this site don't be shy to send me in my email at ursula_chrizel@yahoo.com.

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God loves you!